Category Archives: Love

Fun and Games

Posted on April 28, 2021 by clubfredbaja

On the evening of May 1, 1993, I knew I didn’t want to marry my first husband. In a car with two of our mutual friends, I drove around town and scoured the local bars to find my fiancé. He’d … Continue reading →

Posted in Friends, Health and wellness, Life, Love | Tagged , , , , , | 4 Comments

One Door Closes

Posted on May 25, 2018 by clubfredbaja

I’d planned on closing out the Coconut Chronicles permanently on May 17th, the day we left Canada fifteen years ago, for the symmetry and symbolism. That was my plan. I am good at mistakes and bad at plans. Continue reading →

Posted in Family & Children, Friends, Grief and Mourning, Health and wellness, Love, News and politics, On Scribbling, Travel | Tagged , , , , , | 6 Comments

I Want It All!

Posted on May 16, 2017 by clubfredbaja

Something pretty great happened last week. Great, unexpected, awe-inducing, and more words that describe an event so completely out of left field that almost a week later I am still shaking my head and asking myself, “Really? Did that happen?” … Continue reading →

Posted in Health and wellness, Life, Love, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

One Year Later

Posted on June 6, 2016 by clubfredbaja

I am writing this post two days early.  On June 8th, two days from now, I will remember. What that will look like or how I will react, I don’t know. What I do know is that I have the … Continue reading →

Posted in Family & Children, Grief and Mourning, Health and wellness, Love | Tagged , , , , , | 7 Comments

Worse Than Death

Posted on March 16, 2016 by clubfredbaja

Anniversary season has begun. “This time last year…” But that is not why I’m writing this. Well, it is and it is not why I am writing this. Two important movements are happening in North America right now, both of … Continue reading →

Posted in Family & Children, Grief and Mourning, Health and wellness, Love, News and politics, Uncategorized, Women's Issues | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

Sins of the Grandfather

Posted on February 19, 2016 by clubfredbaja

My Grandmother, on my mother’s side, lived with me for all of my childhood and to this day I do not know my grandfather’s name. While organizing some of the boxes I kept from my Dad’s place, I came across … Continue reading →

Posted in Family & Children, Grief and Mourning, Love, Women's Issues | Tagged , , | 1 Comment

The Road

Posted on December 18, 2015 by clubfredbaja

You say, “The Road won’t win this time. I will nail my feet to the ground. I will hold fast. I will be normal.” You make plans and you imagine yourself the star of a movie where nothing changes and … Continue reading →

Posted in Baja - Mexico, Grief and Mourning, Love, Travel, USA | Tagged , , | 2 Comments

Mind Killer

Posted on November 24, 2015 by clubfredbaja

What scares you? Not in the big, metaphorical sense but in an immediate, palm-sweating, heart racing kind of way. Spiders? Heights? Water? In Frank Herbert’s classic novel, Dune, fear is described as “the mind killer”. There is some truth in … Continue reading →

Posted in Animals, Environment, Health and wellness, Life, Love, Nature & Environment, News and politics, Ocean, Travel | Tagged , , , | 2 Comments

This First Birthday

Posted on October 28, 2015 by clubfredbaja

Today, October 28th, 2015 marks the first time I will not be able to call my sister and wish her a happy birthday. I feel as if I need to do something meaningful to honour and celebrate her. I also … Continue reading →

Posted in Family & Children, Love | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Friends Like These

Posted on October 6, 2015 by clubfredbaja

Imagine you are going to throw a party. You make a list of fifty of your friends. You send out invitations to those fifty friends. How many do you reasonably expect will RSVP with a Yes? How many Maybes? How … Continue reading →

Posted in Friends, Health and wellness, Love | Tagged , , , , , | 4 Comments